Participation Trophy. That's one myth I can dispel. So much hand wringing on the everyone gets a trophy (participation trophy as you said) kids. I've been coaching for over 2 decades, the last 10 at the high school trophy. These are athletes that were in the group. I can assure you they are every bit if not more competitive as they age as my group was in the 70's and 80's when I was playing competitive sports.Busguy2010 wrote: Mon Nov 24, 2025 12:43 pmMy bad, I thought you were done trying to understand my angle. This is a duplicate response to a quote you already replied to. But, since you asked again, I will try my best to articulate.Greg S wrote: Mon Nov 24, 2025 9:30 am Again, how is the word Unity, controversial or bad? I just don't get how that word could be an issue.
Putting the word Unity on your back is much akin to the participation trophy. You know, every kid loses, but giving them a trophy anyway makes them feel like they've accomplished something. You know that degrades character development, right?
In the case of slapping Unity on your back... I'm pretty sure every football team is united (generally. There are a few rotten eggs), however, Oklahoma makes a statement saying they're united, so they put themselves on a moral high ground. "So you in the stands and you at home, be like us and unite. You haven't been doing a very good job of uniting" hence, why I said feeding us our peas.
So here I am looking at the dude on my left, and the dude to my right. Im pretty sure we're united. "So are you accusing us of not being united?" Therefore its a more broad statement that trickles into every day life. I treat people who I dont even know and may never see again with the dignity and respect they deserve based on the merits of their character and behavior. Thats pretty universal isn't it?
So by them putting Unity on every player's back is a statement that says "You there, unite, no matter what the other person does. Unite, or else. Here, have some peas, it'll be alright." And here I am the kid "well sir, I thought we were playing nice". "Don't talk back to me young man. You're grounded!"
If you ever watch South park, its Butters in a nutshell. Poor kid is always in trouble even though he never did anything wrong, he gets fed up and it turns him into a bad kid.
I don't take it real seriously, I'm not mad about it. I just want to watch the game of football, not a platform.
Interesting take but in no way the way I see it. Wow. Moving on...


